Hello everyone, hope everyone is well. I'm doing well although haven't been able to scrap much lately. Hopefully I'll have some time in a little while since the kids are with my mom at a birthday party. Talking about the kids....phew....never thought that parenting would be so darn difficult. Nowadays the kids want to be the parent....
unbelievable. I'm having some difficulties with the kids, especially with my 4 year old boy. He is getting way to rebellious and snotty. I wondered where they learn to have such a bad attitude? Maybe school from other kids? Not sure, but I don't know what else to do....I punish him, I spank him a bit from time to time....and nothing seems to work.
My daughter is a little calmer, but I have to repeat myself 100 million times before she listens. Do you remember when our parent used to tell us something once and that's all they needed? Or sometimes not even tell us, with their look they spoke words....and guys you know I'm not that old...I'm going to be 30 this year....so that wasn't too long ago.
I don't want my kids to be afraid of me, nor a want to be a "mean,
witchy" mother,
lol, but I'm just not sure as how to discipline them anymore. Any advice, suggestions, methods? I need them, I really do.
Well, enough of that. As you all know I've been following this blog of
Scripture Scrappers and Danielle posted this there and I wanted to share.....
Malachi 3:3 says: 'He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver.'
This verse puzzled some women in a Bible study and they wondered what this statement meant about the character and nature of God.. One of the women offered to find out the process of refining silver and get back to the group at their next Bible Study.
That week, the woman called a silversmith and made an appointment to watch him at work. She didn't mention anything about the reason for her interest beyond her curiosity about the process of refining Silver.
As she watched the silversmith, he held a piece of silver over the fire and let it heat up. He explained that in refining silver, one needed to hold the silver in the middle of the fire where the flames were hottest as to burn away all the impurities.
The woman thought about God holding us in such a hot spot; then she thought again about the verse that says: 'He sits as a refiner and purifier of silver.' She asked the silversmith if it was true that he had to sit there in front of the fire the whole time the silver was being refined...
The man answered that yes, he not only had to sit there holding the silver, but he had to keep his eyes on the silver the entire time it was in the fire. If the silver was left a moment too long in the flames, it would be destroyed.
The woman was silent for a moment. Then she asked the silversmith, 'How do you know when the silver is fully refined?'
He smiled at her and answered, 'Oh, that's easy -- when I see my image in it.'
If today you are feeling the heat of the fire , remember that God has his eye on you and will keep watching you until He sees His image in you.
This very moment, someone needs to know that God is watching over them. And, whatever they're going through, they'll be a better person in the end...
'Life is a coin.. You can spend it anyway you wish, but you can only spend it once.'
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