Happy New Year!

I want to start by wishing you many blessings on this New Year...I hope you laugh and pray often....I wish that you meet all your goals....I wish that you have a healthy 2009....I wish that you find peace in your heart....I wish that you accomplish everything you wish....I wish you love in all kinds of ways....I wish you to scrap until your heart is content....I wish you are able to let go of all the things that are keeping you from moving forward....I wish you joy....I wish that if you haven't found the love of God yet, you are on the way....I wish you the BEST....what you deserve, nothing but the BEST.

I got an email today of certain advices for the New Year and I would like to share them with you.

- Go through your cell phone, caller id, calendar, and email addresses and discard all the people and events that mean you no good or don't benefit your life!
- Stop making excuses about your life and make changes!
- Keep your opinion to yourself! We all know what others should do, but what about you?
- If you are involved w/ a person, job, or circumstance that is doing more harm than good, do yourself a favor - LET IT GO!
- Take care of your kids and devote a weekend or two when you spend"quality" time with them. Who cares if you miss out on a "mix"!
- If you are not saved....get saved!!!!!
- Get your debt in order! Eventually you'll want a nice home and car in your name!
- Stop spreading senseless rumors and try to get your own life in order!
- Listen more! Talk Less!
- Give without worrying about it!
- Tell people you love them before your hear about some great tragedy in the world or lose a close friend!
- Speak clearly and not ignorantly! Anyone can be a fool.
- SAY NO TO DRUGS!!!!!
- If you can't say it to their face, don't say it.
- Stop waiting on Tax Season and Save Now!
- Eat what you need and not just because you can!
- See how long you can go without checking your cell phone when it's not ringing.
- Be more positive and stop being a grouch!
- Appreciate everyone. WHY do we put each other down for the most ridiculous things?!?
- Men and women! Cry more! It's therapeutic.
- Stop tripping about not being where you want to be! What have you been doing to get there?!?
- If you aren't in relationship, it's not the end of the world! Self love is waaaaay more valuable!
- STOP pointing out what you think are others' flaws to hide your own.
- FORGIVE! FORGIVE! FORGIVE! All of us have been forgiven for some low life things! So open your heart! Remember - God forgave you.
- Men, stop trying to be so hard when it comes to relationships. Let that guard down before you lose the one that's meant for you!
- Stop trying to get everyone else told and let God speak; try keeping your mouth shut!
- Learn a new hobby! Broaden your mind.
- Stop trying to change everyone into what you think they should be or how you think they should act; do YOU meet everyone expectations?
- Live today like it's your last day, love like God taught us, and laugh like you've never laughed before!
- Lastly , if it's only 5 minutes a day have a little talk with Jesus! Let Him know you want to be better today than you were yesterday and watch Him turn things around for you! "God determines who walks into your life....it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go."
- Pray about everything and worry about nothing!

Love,

Bessie